It was a summer morning in Ahmadabad. I had started my
morning walk. The atmosphere was pretty warm, even in the early hours of the
morning. To avoid direct sun, I had a chosen a road, which is covered with
trees and some tall buildings, so their shade makes my walk pleasant. Ahmadabad
is peculiar, as far as stray dogs are concerned. I have stayed in many cities
of India but the population of stray dogs, in Ahmadabad is very large, as compared
to other cities. And the culture here, is of not harming the animals. I see couple of ladies feeding the dogs on the road in the
morning. Ahmadabad Municipal Corporation does not cull the stray dogs but just
sterilizes them. So, on every corner of road there are 3 -4 dogs. Some dogs
have propensity, to climb on the hood of the car, parked on the side of the
road. Though they are harm less, you have to be alert to their presence, to
avoid any untoward incidence. I was walking on the road and on the footpath at
some distance away, I saw a brown dog, a big one. I became alert and continued
walking. When I reached near it, I felt suddenly relieved. It was not a dog but
a trunk of a tree cut and kept on the footpath. That brown trunk, looked like
dog to me from a distance. How your mind plays tricks on you! I was alert to stray
dogs on the road, so I saw a dog in the tree trunk. I smiled at myself.
How many times, we see a dog, an elephant, a face, in the
clouds above, though there is none. Are our senses, tricking us? Or, are our thoughts
creating images? We are programmed, to look at the world around us in a certain
fashion. This programming through which we see the world is known as our world
view or our mental model.
Prof. Srikumar Rao
in his book “ Are you ready to succeed: Unconventional strategies for
achieving personal mastery in Business and life” says- “A mental model is the notion, we
have, about how the world works or how things are done or ought to be done.” It
is an inner representation, through which we provide meanings, to the events
happening in and around us. We use mental models, to explain ourselves why
things happen, to console ourselves, to satisfy ourselves and to tell us, what
we should do, in a particular situation. Through mental models, we evaluate
events, happening to us and around us and try to find meaning, security,
sustenance and happiness from the events.
Prof. Srikumar Rao says that - “The first block to personal
mastery – and one of the biggest- is our unquestioned mental models. These are
our fixed ideas of how the world works and how things should or shouldn’t be
done. --- We have different models for different situations- for work, for
love, for our families. We have dozens of them that we use and some of them may
actually be in direct conflict with others and we may not even know it. In fact,
much of the stress in our lives arises from this lack of awareness.”
Some of the mental models which we can see around (In India at
least) are-
For a young student – If I
study hard, get a good education, preferably from premier institute of India,
then I will get good job and then I can be happy.
About work place- In my work place, the atmosphere is very
competitive. Everybody wants, to win at any cost. People with connections and
influence, get promoted faster, there is no place for merit.
A common mental model about
Govt.- All govt officers are corrupt. Govt institutions does not work.
On family - one should marry with in class, caste, religion,
education/ social standing for finding happiness.
In family: Duties of
husband and wife are defined and are separated. (Though I know, this is changing,
especially in Covid times). Children should study hard and become academically
successful. Family traditions should be held high. Girls should go in
particular professions. (Of late we are finding girls venturing into
professions like drivers, pilots, defence service officers, which are
traditionally seen, as professions suitable for Males only)
Money: Money is hard to come by. You should work hard to get
money. Or I am indifferent to money. The lucky ones get money. Money attracts
money.
These are just a
representative, of a whole lot of mental models, that are in operation. Sometimes,
we are aware of the models, we are using, but most of the times, we are not
aware. And our behaviour and interaction with the world is driven by these
mental models. Prof. Srikumar Rao says
for achieving personal mastery, awareness of the models, we are using, is the
most important thing.
So, what you think? What
are some of the dominant mental models you use for navigating this life? Do you
think they are useful or obstructing your progress?
Pl see the picture below. What you see?
You can leave a comment.
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No mental model is right or wrong. As explained it is a way to look at the world around us. Whether that model helps us to be happy,to excel in our chosen path, helps us grow are some of the criteria about usability of the mental models.
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